Gain clarity.

Take aligned action.

Reconnect with truth.

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A causal 20-minute conversation to explore whether the work feels aligned.

You’ve built a successful life,

but your mind never lets you fully arrive in it.

I'M NOT GOOD ENOUGH

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I SHOULD BE DOING SOMETHING RIGHT NOW

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I'LL NEVER GET IT RIGHT

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I'M NOT GOOD ENOUGH 〰️ I SHOULD BE DOING SOMETHING RIGHT NOW 〰️ I'LL NEVER GET IT RIGHT 〰️

HE'S BETTER THAN ME

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I WISH SHE LIKED ME

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I SHOULDN'T FEEL LIKE THIS

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HE'S BETTER THAN ME 〰️ I WISH SHE LIKED ME 〰️ I SHOULDN'T FEEL LIKE THIS 〰️

NO ONE KNOWS HOW TO LOVE ME

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I CARE TOO MUCH

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NO ONE KNOWS HOW TO LOVE ME 〰️ I CARE TOO MUCH 〰️

I'M WEIRD

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I DON'T HAVE WHAT IT TAKES

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I'M WEIRD 〰️ I DON'T HAVE WHAT IT TAKES 〰️

I'M NOT GOOD ENOUGH

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I'LL NEVER GET IT RIGHT

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I'M NOT GOOD ENOUGH 〰️ I'LL NEVER GET IT RIGHT 〰️

HE'S BETTER THAN ME

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I WISH SHE LIKED ME

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HE'S BETTER THAN ME 〰️ I WISH SHE LIKED ME 〰️

NO ONE KNOWS HOW TO LOVE ME

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I'M NOT A GOOD PERSON

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I CARE TOO MUCH

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NO ONE KNOWS HOW TO LOVE ME 〰️ I'M NOT A GOOD PERSON 〰️ I CARE TOO MUCH 〰️

I'M WEIRD

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I DON'T HAVE WHAT IT TAKES

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I'M WEIRD 〰️ I DON'T HAVE WHAT IT TAKES 〰️

in the life you already have,

and live life from there.

A Different Approach

Intuitive coaching isn’t about fixing who you are.

Most coaching focuses on changing habits, strategies, or goals. This work looks deeper at the patterns of mind that constantly evaluate, overthink, and try to control life.

As those patterns become clearer, people often experience less mental noise, more clarity, greater ease, and more authentic relationships — not by becoming someone new, but by reconnecting with what’s already here.

Who this is for.

People often contact me for coaching when:

✔Your mind constantly analyzes or evaluates things

✔You feel successful but strangely unfulfilled

✔ You’re going through a life transition or identity shift

✔You feel stuck in patterns you can see but can’t change

✔Sense something deeper is possible but not sure what

✔You’re having trouble connecting in a relationship

How the Coaching Works

STEP 01

Free 20 Minute Call

A short conversation to explore what’s going on and see if the work feels aligned.

STEP 02

Coaching Sessions

60-minute conversations personalized to you and your real-life situations.

STEP 03

Integration

The insights naturally show up in daily life — work, relationships, and the way you experience yourself.

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Client Testimonials

  • “I’ve done therapy, read all the books, and understood everything intellectually—but nothing really changed. Working with Evan was completely different. He helped me see the patterns in real time, not just talk about them. For the first time, my mind actually feels quieter. I’m not constantly analyzing everything. I feel like myself again.”

    ~R.L.

  • “Talking with Evan felt natural and insightful. He creates a space where it’s easy to open up and explore things honestly. I left our conversations with a new perspective and deeper clarity.”

    ~E.C.

  • “I was honestly skeptical at first, especially about the intuitive side. But Evan is incredibly grounded. Nothing felt ‘out there.’ The insights were surprisingly accurate, and more importantly, practical. I could actually apply what we talked about in my real life.”

    ~B.C.

  • “Evan didn’t try to fix my thoughts, he helped change how I saw them. My mind never stopped. Even when I was ‘resting,’ I wasn’t actually resting. That shift has changed everything. There’s more space, more clarity, and I don’t feel trapped in my own head anymore.”

    ~R.W.

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About Me

For years, I believed achievement would eventually make me feel whole.

I earned a PhD in Motivational Psychology, worked in high-performance environments, and spent much of my life trying to optimize, improve, and figure everything out.

But underneath the striving was a quieter reality:
my mind never truly let me rest.

What changed my life wasn’t becoming more impressive.
It was seeing more clearly the patterns of thought and identity I had unconsciously built my life around.

That shift transformed not just how I felt internally, but how I related to work, relationships, parenting, and everyday life.

Now I help others do the same.

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Evan Fishman, Ph.D.

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Ways To Work Together

One-on-one conversations to explore awareness, identity patterns, and real-life challenges.

Private Coaching

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Intentional communities for honest reflection and shared growth — grounded, practical, relational.

Groups

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Subtle, direct clarity for transition points, questions logic can’t resolve, and deeper self-understanding.

Intuitive Sessions

About Intuitive Sessions

What Happens on the Discovery Call?

The free 20-minute call is just two people having an honest conversation. No commitment. No paperwork. Just a chance to see if this is the right fit for you.

On the call we’ll:

✔ Talk briefly about what’s going on in your life
✔ I’ll explain how the coaching process works
✔ You can ask any questions you may have
✔ If it feels aligned, we can discuss next steps

Sometimes the call itself already brings helpful clarity.

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Groups

Connection, Reflection, and Real Conversation

High Altitude Men’s Group

In-Person · Boulder & Denver, CO

Most men don’t have a place where they feel free to be themselves, without the fear of judgment. As a result, many lack authentic connections.

This is a grounded, in-person men’s group focused on honest conversation—without fixing, posturing, or spiritual jargon. This is a space to show up as you are, speak openly, listen deeply, and remember you’re not doing life alone.

Low pressure. Real presence. Shared humanity.

About High Altitude

Everyday Awakening Group

Remote from anywhere in the world.

A supportive, reflective group for people who’ve had moments of awakening, insight, or inner shift—and want help integrating them into everyday life.
We explore awareness, identity, emotion, and meaning in a practical, grounded way—bridging insight with relationships, work, and daily living.

Depth without dogma. Insight with integration.

About Everyday Awakening

You don’t have to keep feeling stuck, disconnected, or overwhelmed.

You’re not supposed to do this alone.

Let’s get you back to you.